Hi there, my name is Sunny Shell and I'm an extremely grateful daughter of the LORD God Almighty.

I am a wife to an incredibly godly man, who God has filled with love, kindness, wisdom and much mercy. My husband is my best friend... and there's nothing anyone on this earth knows about me more than him. We tell each other everything and are grateful to God for allowing us to truly understand what He means when He says He made us "one"!

I'm also the Mama of two incredibly blessed and talented sons. Our oldest is 20 and a Sophomore in college, while our youngest is nearly 18 and a Senior in high school (and I homeschool him). They both love to sing and have been very involved with church and school choirs since they were toddlers. Both boys love music, movies, sports and have played almost all sports with running being the favorite to do and football being the favorite to watch (for my oldest) and tennis being the favorite to play and football being the favorite to watch (for my youngest son).

Last, but not least, I am blessed to be a stay-at-home-mom, exhorter, discipler, ex-school volunteer, blogger, and writer. You can find my writings at: My Second Love: A Proverbs 31 Study, and I used to write for Examiner.com with two columns: Christian Worldview (national) and Christian Marriage (local) until their ads became so immoral, I could no longer write for them in good conscience. I'm slowly moving my published articles here so you can read them in God-honoring medium.

Please feel free to contact me with questions or comments regarding your faith, life struggles (especially as a wife or Mama), any of my posts, or topics from my "Ask Sunny" page.

A bit about my marriage...
My marriage is beyond amazing right now, but it hasn't always been this way. My darling and I didn't start our marriage fully trusting God. In our immaturity, we were deceived into believing that we only had to trust God for the "big" things in life, but were smart enough to handle all the rest ourselves. Naturally, we discovered how beyond wrong we were as our marriage began to deteriorate right away. The first 3 - 5 years were very strenuous and we nearly divorced within our first year of marriage. I was raised in an unbelieving, abusive home where I was severely persecuted since age four, and he was raised in a falsely Christian home where he was taught "God wants you to be happy, no matter what." My darling husband was then traumatized by his parents divorce, and multiple marriages by both parents there after. As you can see, neither of us were raised in godly homes and had no concept of what a true and healthy biblical marriage (or family) looked like. After seriously contemplating divorce, we both agreed, that no matter how much we didn't like each other at that time, we would choose to love each other all the time, just as Christ our God has loved us. Divorce was off the table and we would both pursue to honor and trust God in and for everything. It was still very difficult for both of us to die to ourselves and completely relinquish the horrors of our upbringings, but by Christ's strength; we were able to rise above the ashes of our past and soar high above them with the faith God has so graciously and abundantly granted us.

A bit about family...
Through this tumultuous time in our marriage, God taught us that we needed to be "clean slates" and throw out everything we'd known before and start anew with Him. So we began to read and study Scripture as if our lives depended on it; because we finally realized that it did. We devoured any book, any magazine and any anything God brought our way to help us honor Him in all things and to raise our children in the love and admonition of the Lord so they would have what neither of us ever did; a family where love for Christ is preeminent.

A bit about parenting...
By God's grace we both strive to live our utmost for God's highest and teach our children the same. We still make lots of mistakes and apologize to our children often, always pointing them to the Cross of Christ and looking only to Him for perfection and full life satisfaction.

A bit about my heart...
I am a just one. One of many blessed and dearly loved children of God. Who day by day, hope to see more of Jesus revealed in my life, than me. My greatest desire is for my life to be something beautiful to the Lord (Mark 14:6). I don't have any "great" plans or goals for my life. I just want to make God smile and contribute any amount of joy and gladness to His heart, no matter how small that might be.

What do I write about? I write about my faith, marriage, biblical submission, child training, friendships, evangelism, my battle of severe health issues for the past 7 years, and anything in between.

Keeping it real, while keeping it pure, to keep it praiseworthy (Ephesians 4:29, Philippians 4:8-9)

I'd love for you to journey along with me as I share my life lessons, life struggles and life victories found only in Jesus. And I'd like to hear your stories too.

May God's grace and peace saturate your life today.♥

7 comments:

  1. Melanie RodriguezMarch 28, 2012 at 9:05 AM

    Hi Sunny,
    I am a new reader as of today. I was searching for a picture on Google for my Wordless Wednesday for my blog and I picked the picture with the lady holding a Bible and it directed me to you.  Only God knew I needed to read your blog. I recently became a blogger and look forward at reading yours. My marriage needs prayer.

    In Christ,
    Melanie

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  2. Hello precious sister Melanie,

    Thank you for your sweet note.

    I Praise God for always leading us and giving us exactly what we need, even when we're not looking for it. :o) Our heavenly Father is exceedingly kind to us!

    I will be in prayer for you and your marriage sweet sister. If you'd like to join our online Bible study and our private FB study group, please click on (a href="www.mysecondlove.net"/>"My Second Love" on the navigation menu. That will take you to the Bible study, and will inform you what it's about, how to do it and how to join our private FB study group if the Lord so leads you.

    I'm looking forward to getting to know you better sister and pray that the Lord bring His comfort and peace as you strive to be the wife/woman of God He created you to be. ♥

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  3. Hi Sunny!
    My sweet friend Melanie directed me to your blog today. She and I met online in Mid 2008 after we had both lost babies to miscarriage 4 days apart in March 2008 after we began to search for support after loss in the cyber world. Our friendship has blessed both our lives abundently over the past four years and we finally met IRL in 2010. What a glorious meeting it was - two ladies almost peas in pods who have been thru so many similar trials in life have been joined together not only thru our losses but thru the love of our Savior. We continue to encourage eachother thru the miles between OK and TX and await the day we are reunited in TX again very soon.
    I'm on my phone so this message might be jumbled...
    After reading about you and your testimony and you love for Jesus I can already tell that I'll be reading your blog and visiting your fb group often.
    Thank you in advance for your encouragement and insight that I know I'll gain thru our online friendship :-)
    I also hope I can be of an encourager to you as my heart has been transformed over the past four years to be a prayer warrior and encourger to others enduring life's storms.
    In Christ,
    Amanda
    I love your name

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  4. Hi Sunny,
    Wow, I truly enjoy and convicted by your interview on KKLA 99.5 with Frank S. May our Good Lord Jesus Christ bless you and your family abundantly, my sister in Christ.
    I have not seen The Bible mini series, I plan to watch it with my wife and see how off it is from scriptures. I initially was going to watch it with my two children (10 and 7), but after talking to a close Christian brother, I believe this series will harm my kids. But your review was very helpful and confirm the extreme inaccuracy of this mini series. I can see the true purpose of Roma and Mark for making the mini series, and quite disappointed, but what can I expect when fallen human try to rewrite the Word of God.
    God bless you. :)

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  5. Thank you for your kind and thoughtful encouragement Peter. Yes, I agree with your friend that it would be harmful for your children since kids are already inclined to fantasy-like tales. You wouldn't want them to have the truth mangled with the lies of this film.


    I don't expect fallen man to re-write the word of God accurately...that's just the point, no human being has the right to presume they can or should.☺ Bless you brother.

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  6. Dear Sunny,


    I hope someday my marriage would be as blessed as yours. Being married to an unbeliever who thinks he believes is a tough and lonely road. And it affects the kids too. I have two adult children who are going the wrong way, please pray for them. Day to day I struggle to live as a godly wife. It is getting easier as I continue to put my husband and children first to the Glory of God alone, and not to mine. Please do not praise my attempts, give all Praise and Glory to God because that is where it belongs. I fail often and repent daily to maintain a pure heart before the Lord. Please pray for my ability to endure, as with my health issues, that too adds to the stress of trying to live for Jesus in a worldly home. I also came from a abusive catholic home growing up, but by the Grace of God I am here today and can proclaim a loving, merciful God lives as He has changed my heart.


    Keep writing dear sister in the Lord, as apostasy grows we need more followers of Christ to speak the truth and warn the brethren. Please know you are now added to my prayer list.


    your sister in Christ Jesus,
    Cherie c.


    p.s. a good blog to visit is Following Judah's Lion.

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  7. Thank you for your encouragement precious sister Cherie, I am and will continue to pray for you and your sweet family. ☺

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