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Hey there, I'm Sunny Shell, a wretch saved by God's grace through faith in Jesus Christ the Lord. I'm married to the most incredible man on earth, who loves Jesus more than he loves me, and we have two precious adult sons.

The compassionately endures me through my metabolic disease (since 2004) that enables me to be more prayerful and careful about commitments I make and helps me to make the best use of my short time here on earth.

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Why Is Repentance Repulsive?



"I've learned so much from my mistakes, I think I'll make more" is a popular phrase that has appeared on many memes, tweets, timelines and even things like magnets, pins, and other items we can purchase. This seemingly harmless saying is actually very harmful. Most of us have read it someplace, and often, our initial response is to laugh, feel better about the genuine mistakes we've made and sadly, even the purposeful sins we've committed against our holy, kind, and gracious Father God. This is where it gets dangerous.

Do we all make mistakes? Absolutely! To err is human, right? Unfortunately, to sin is human too. And we all do it more than we'd like to admit...unless of course, a flighty little phrase like this one comes along and feeds our flesh the lies it desires—we can excuse our sins without repentance—and without a Savior.

We continually come up with new ways to make ourselves and others feel better about our sins rather than do what God says; repent. We say things like, "No one's perfect", "God knows my heart", "I'll ask for forgiveness later", and my all time least favorite, "Oh, no need to ask for forgiveness, we all do ______." That last one makes us all sound so holy and full of grace and mercy, doesn't it? But it's not holy, gracious or merciful. It's just our old, sin-filled, depraved heart and mind excusing the sin of others so we feel justified when we do the same.

I can't tell you how many times I've repented and asked for forgiveness for gossiping, being unkind, being thoughtless, responding in pride, being self-centered and...well, you get the picture (Rom 7:21-24). Most times, rather than receive the forgiveness I've requested, I get "No need to ask for forgiveness, this is a time for grace." What?! That's not grace, that's excusing my sin. And trust me, I don't need help making excuses for my sins. I'm already good at that. What I need is encouragement not to sin and not to make excuses when I do, but repent to God, then to those who've been injured by my sin. What I need is accountability. And that's what you need too.

Do we need to repent for mistakes? No, because mistakes aren't sins. For example, if I misquote someone because I remembered something incorrectly or give you wrong directions because I forgot to include a necessary turn, I'm not sinning, I'm simply human and can't do anything "perfectly". However, if I misquote someone on purpose, adding or subtracting what they said and adding my own twist in order to make my point, then that's manipulation (which is a sin). If I purposefully give you the wrong directions so you're late because I know it'll make you look or feel bad, that's a sin. Sometimes discerning what is and isn't a sin can be difficult for onlookers, but it's not for God and shouldn't be for those who are examining their hearts in the light of God's Word.

Motives (which can't be seen) often distinguish between sins and honest mistakes. But gossiping, being unkind, thoughtlessness, responding in pride and being self-centered are obvious sins many of us entertain, and excuse in others; as well as ourselves.

"Bear fruit in keeping with repentance...Or do you presume on the riches of His kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?

"But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the fruit you get leads to sanctification and its end, eternal life."
~Matthew 3:8; Romans 2:4, 6:22 (ESV)

Repentance is a gift from God that leads the lost to saving faith, and provides continual sanctification for the saints, yet, much like unbelievers, we children of God, still find repentance repulsive. We call evil good and good evil when we accuse someone of being judgmental and unloving when they love us enough to pierce our sin-filled flesh with the Word of God and shine His brilliant light on our sins.

The most unfortunate part about our lack of desire to bear the fruit of repentance is that we keep ourselves from the peaceful fruit of righteousness that God works in all who are trained by His loving discipline. Since we can freely come to God confident He will forgive our sins (Heb 4:16), knowing we will possibly be disciplined but not punished (Heb 12:10, 1 Jn 4:18); why don't we daily, carry our crosses like Jesus commanded and kill the sin in our flesh?

Let us love and obey all that Christ has commanded and enabled us to do by the power of His Holy Spirit. Let us live in the freedom Christ died to give us. Let us stop laughing at our sins and the sins of others. Rather, let us weep and mourn over them and pray for God's forgiveness and for opportunities to repent to all we've sinned against and injured. Let us not say what the world says, "I've learned so much from my mistakes, I think I'll make more". Rather, let us say what only the children of God are free to proclaim with joy, "I've learned so much from my past sins, I'm encouraged I will sin less."

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5 comments:

  1. Oh my, Sunny, I posted something on another blog just today about my experience with repentance. Repentance hurts! Repentance is painful! Repentance tells us we were wrong, we were bad, we made mistakes--nothing we want to here--but what true repentance REALLY tells us is that we've disobeyed God. Somehow we know that getting to that deep understanding of how much we've grieved God will be very painful...so our repentance is often shallow and half-hearted.

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  2. Sunny, My curiosity is piqued after reading the paragraph beginning with "The most unfortunate part...." Do you believe that the truly redeemed will weep over their sins, and will, indeed, bear the peaceful fruit of righteousness, or that it is an option? Can it be that the reason some don't daily carry their crosses is that they don't know the Savior, or are they off the narrow road momentarily, and when they get back on the road, then they will bear fruit? How does a soul grated into the Vine not bear fruit?

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  3. I agree with everything you shared precious sister Elldee. May the Lord help our repentance be true and deep, rather than just be an occasion of only being "sorry" we got caught.

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  4. Hi there precious sister Debbie,


    I believe, as it is written in Scripture, that the truly redeemed will, at some point weep over sins. But during those times throughout our lives in which we disobey God and sin (which we all will do until we go Home), we can have momentary lapses where we try to excuse it (like King David did when he sinned with Bathsheba) or simply give in to our fleshly desires (like the Apostle Paul describes in Romans 7).


    I don't believe anyone who is truly saved can wander off the narrow path because God's grace that saved us, also keeps us there. Does that mean we always bear the peaceful fruit of righteousness? No, not when we sin, because our hearts are anguished by the sin (Romans 7), so we have no peace, but rather heartache.


    Because we are grafted into the Vine by God's grace and not by our own doing, we cannot do anything to be ungrafted. However, being saved does not mean we will consistently bear fruit in the name of Jesus because while we are here on earth, we will still sin...sin less and less, but sin nonetheless.


    The Lord bless you dear sister. ♥

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  5. I appreciate the clarification. Thank you for being a vessel, who helps me, and others to "see" more clearly! And blessings on you as well!

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