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"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near."
~ Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV)
Unfortunately, not all Christians are members of a church where they can be built up in their faith by being held accountable and restored when they sin (Prov 27:5-6, 2 Cor 2:5-8).

Not all Christians have the support of other believers for times of rejoicing, or times of sorrow (Rom 12:15). They are alone. Why? Because sadly, they've believed the devil's lie that listening to a sermon on the radio, TV or internet is good enough. They've fallen into the enemy's trap best known as, "You don't have to go to church. That's being legalistic. God is everywhere so you can worship Him anywhere." Of course, as with all lies, there's a grain of truth; and just enough to fool anyone who's discernment is weak because they're not in the Word daily, and they've neglected to fellowship and be strengthened by being with other believers in Christ.

They are alone.

And those who are alone, are the best and easiest prey for Satan, the most crafty and cunning predator.

"Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour."
~ 1 Peter 5:8

Have you ever watched the animal channels on TV? The ones where they show lions and other predators hunting for their next meal? I have. And no matter the predator, they all use the same tactic. They quietly and patiently lie in wait, studying their oblivious prey; watching their lone victim eat, drink and be merry, with no regard for the danger it put itself in by wandering off...alone. Then suddenly, with no warning, the predator leaps out from the shadows and plunges towards the foolish animal that's too stunned, too slow and too weak to ward off the attack of its adversary. It's a sad and gruesome demise, and one that's necessary in the animal kingdom. But this is not a necessary and can be avoided by those who have been called into the Kingdom of God, as His holy and beloved children.

So how do we avoid becoming foolish prey to the devil, our adversary? We do it with wisdom and sobriety by feeding our spirits daily with the Word of God and keeping in close fellowship with brothers and sisters who will not flatter us, but will love us enough to speak and display God's love to us—whether or not it makes us feel good.

Just like predators in the animal world, Satan employs the same tactics and preys on those who will give the least resistance: the aged, the very young and the feeble. When these easy targets are left alone, they make themselves more desirable to the enemy than they already were.

Thankfully, those who are in Christ, are granted all the wisdom, strength and support we need so our adversary, the devil, cannot prevail. The question is: will we desire God's best for us, or try to live our lives in accordance with what makes us feel most comfortable...at the time?

If you're not a member of a church, and I don't mean a "regular attendee" I mean, a committed member; then you need to rectify that as soon as possible. You need to fellowship with other members of the Body of Christ, submit under the headship of elders, and surround yourself with people who love you enough to hold you accountable when you sin, as well as lovingly restore you when you repent.

We all need other our brothers and sisters in Christ to help us remember to hold fast to the confession we made when we first trusted Jesus as your Lord and Savior (Heb 10:23).

"But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called "today," that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. For we have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original confidence firm to the end."
~ Hebrews 3:13-14
(I'm the little girl on the far right.)
Thinking back on my life, I've often wondered why God ever took notice of me. There I was, the youngest of three children to first generation, Korean-Buddhist, immigrant parents, sharing a 3-bedroom, 1-bath townhouse with nine other people (my parents, my older brother and sister, my paternal grandmother, my paternal uncle, his wife and two kids). And out of all these people, in a little and impoverished neighborhood, there I was. Nothing special. Just one, in the midst of many. So, why did God, almighty, awesome, wonderful, magnificent God, take notice of me?

"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before Him. In love He predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of His will, to the praise of His glorious grace, with which He has blessed us in the Beloved."
~ Ephesians 1:3-6

That blows my mind away! God chose me before I had time to either do anything good or bad. I find so much comfort and peace knowing that God’s love and gift of salvation is not dependent on me. The Bible says that He chose me because it pleased Him to reveal and share His glorious self with me (1 Corinthians 1:21).

I still remember the awe-inspiring time I first heard the Gospel. I was quiet and contemplative as I pondered the love of God, fully demonstrated in Christ Jesus the Lord. Jesus Christ, the only begotten Son of God, left Heaven, came to earth, lived a lowly and holy life, brutally suffered and died for me. And I didn't even know Him!

Why would someone I didn't even know, die for me? And such a horrifying and humiliating death! I knew I’d broken God’s law and deserved His wrath and eternal damnation in Hell. I also knew what I just heard, was a love, not of this world. I wanted nothing more than to show Him how grateful I was for all He'd already done for me while I was completely ignorant of and in enmity with Him.

It was then, that 13 years of brutal and unmentionable beatings and persecution began. What was my response? Terror, at first. Then peace. How did this peace come? From God's powerful word, living and active in me (Hebrews 4:12). When I was a bit older and could read the Bible for myself, the Holy Spirit led me to Matthew 10:34-39 and Psalm 27:1-3, 10-14.

I waited for the LORD to deliver me from this merciless torment. And after 13 years, just as suddenly as it started, it also ended. Sometimes I wonder if that's what the Israelites must have felt when they were terrified to see that they were walled in by the enemy behind them and the Red Sea before them. Then suddenly, God parted the Red Sea and they traveled safely to the other side. And just as suddenly, their enemies were no more. The Lord still does that for us today, but often we miss the Red Sea partings because our eyes are not fixed on Christ, but on our circumstances. I have a magnet on my fridge that says, "God didn't promise a pleasant passage. But He did promise a safe landing." If the Israelites continued to look at the enemy behind them, they would’ve missed the miracle God was working before them.

Today, I am reconciled to my parents, though they are still not saved. Which is why I continue to preach and live the Gospel before them, and before the sight of my awesome God and Father, as often as my Lord makes me able.

As you celebrate the First Coming of Christ the Lord this year, let not the activities drown out the majestic purpose of God coming as man, so that all who repent and trust in Jesus, may come before God...without being utterly destroyed.
As I lay in my bed, praying, thanking my Heavenly Father for all His goodness, for His awesome love, the gift of knowing Him, and the incredible joy of interceding for the saints in Christ, I was reminded of a day not too long ago.

On an ordinary day when my darling husband was at work, my sweet sons were at school and I was home, alone, working around the house, cleaning, doing laundry and trying to get some writing done, I heard the gentle patter of rain. As I moved to my kitchen to work in there, I saw the sun shine...while it was still raining! Now, this is not the first time I’ve seen this, but I always respond the same way -- with exuberant joy! Then, like a little school girl excited to open a gift, I run outside to get a better look! I just want to be closer! I want to experience it with every sense I have! I want to hear it fall on the ground, taste each drop on my tongue, smell its freshness, look at it and feel the warmth of the sun at the same time I feel the cool wetness of the rain.

Once I’m outside, and have the opportunity to drink in all the loveliness of this moment, I just stand there. And I stand. And stand. In awe of God. It’s such a glorious site! No matter how many times I’ve seen this, I’m still in awe of seeing clear skies and sunshine through the rain! It just makes my heart soar with joy and thanksgiving!

When this beautiful thought came to mind, so did many other thoughts; precious memories. Memories of God’s faithfulness I’ve known all my life.

I’ve seen the Son shine through every rainy day, and even through the most terrifying storms. I’ve had the awesome privilege of watching God’s love shine through me while I was being beaten for thirteen years. I saw Him use my hands to tenderly comfort and wipe away the tears of my abusers. I saw the Lord offer His love and forgiveness to anyone and everyone who hurt me, whether physically, emotionally or mentally; and I saw His living word, truly manifested in my life, when these things seemed so impossible. I saw my precious Savior lift me out of every miry pit I threw myself in when I was a teenager and thought I had learned all I needed to know about God. I saw Him change me, mold me and faithfully transform me by His Holy Spirit, more and more into the likeness of His Son, my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I saw God miraculously bring me the most wonderful husband in the world! Perfect...just for me! I saw Him deliver me and my first born son from death, and my husband from great heartbreak when it looked like neither of us were going to survive his birth. And two years later, I saw the Lord bless us with a second wonderful son! I saw the LORD giving me strength to endure, when it seemed impossible; when my body was weak, my mind couldn’t hold a single thought or even remember things I’ve known most of my life.

For the past seven years, I’ve seen the LORD magnify His love through constant and sometimes debilitating pain, sleepless nights, two surgeries, countless procedures and ER visits, and two hospital admits.

I’ve seen God work more miracles throughout my life; so many, it is impossible to re-tell all, in one life time.

And I believe God has graciously, wisely and mercifully allowed every trial, so I’ll always be able to see His Son shine, through every rain.

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.
~ Romans 8:18
One of the hardest things to do as a parent is to teach our children how to endure anything that causes them pain. Moms seem have the most difficult time in this area. Like mother hens, we want to run and shelter them with our wings from all the thundering verbal abuses, torrents of physical bullying, and the gusting winds of emotional distresses that rage against our precious little ones as they face the world each day. No matter how young or old they are, we always see them as our little chicks and we so desperately want them spared from such evils. We don’t mind if all these adversities come thrashing down on us. We’ll take it. We’ll persevere. And we’re willing, ready and able to cover our children while pecking at all that dares to harm them.

But then -- we hear our Savior say:

“But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you... But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”
~ Luke 6:27-28, 35-36

Our youngest son, who’s a sophomore in high school, recently suffered a serious high ankle sprain, which the doctor said is equivalent to a break because it involves more tendons that have ripped and requires just as much time to heal as a broken bone; 6 - 8 weeks. He’s on crutches and has an ankle brace. He’s in pain physically. And now, he’s having to endure needless and senseless emotional pain.

“What kind of wimp gets a serious injury from playing a woman’s sport?”

“You’ve gotta be the biggest wimp ever!”

“We understand if you got injured from playing a real game. You know, a man’s sport like football. But tennis? HA! Give me a break! What a wimp!”

And when there’s little time for a full onslaught of vomiting rancid insults, they are sure to get in a quick jab as he walks by, as they shout:

“Woman’s sport!”

Oh heartbreaks of heartbreaks. As in many times past, I found myself, once again...struggling. What was my initial reaction? My first thoughts? I assure you, it wasn’t to remind my son of Luke 6:27-36. It sure wasn’t to remind him that he should have pity on these poor souls. It wasn’t to teach him to forgive them in spite of themselves. To love them. Do good to them. Bless them or pray for them. No, none of these things were the first things that popped into my mind when I first heard the ridicule he received from the other students at school.

But regardless of my flesh’s desire to shelter my children from every storm, I know if I truly love them, I’ll give them what’s best. I will do good to them. Even if the good at the time, seems very, very hard. True love seeks the greatest benefit for the object of their love; not the quickest route to bring them comfort. To be reminded of this fact, we only need to look at the Cross.

So, I prayed. And prayed. I asked God to open my mouth with wisdom, so that the teaching of kindness would be on my tongue (Proverbs 31:26). Why? Because I truly love my son. And although I wish I could kiss this “boo boo” away just as quickly as I used to when he was younger; I am unable and unwilling to give my child cotton candy training; all sweet and tasty, but no substance to make a lasting effect. I want to give my child God’s best. So I gave him God’s word. I reminded him of Luke 6 and the four action items our Lord Jesus gave us: love, do good, bless and pray for all those who do evil to you.

“Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay says the Lord.’ To the contrary, if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
~ Romans 12:17-21

Thanks be to God, I have an amazing husband who not only supported our son with godly words of encouragement, but he also exhorted him to stay faithful to all that God has called him to, and be proud that these petty remarks, are all his accusers can come up with. They have no character qualities to jeer at. So they've jumped on the only thing could...his physical injury.

Dad's, you'll never know the impact your words, whether encouraging or demeaning can have on your sons; especially during their teen years. Speak words of life and truth to them. And like our son, it will more than carry him through the day. Loving and compassionate instruction from a father catapults a son beyond every persecution and lifts his eyes towards Jesus so that he can rise above it all, by faith and trust in God alone.

Am I still sad? Yes...a little. But it’s a peaceful sadness because I’m resting in the fact that our Father God’s wings provide a far greater covering than mine.
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