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While it’s true Joseph Kony is a vile and contemptuous man who’s illegal and inhumane activities must be stopped, it’s not wise for Christians to give anything beyond prayer to Invisible Children.

As Christians, we’re responsible for using the wisdom God gave us to appropriate our time, talents and finances only to that which promotes and aids the entire well-being of a person; offering tangible help (e.g. providing food, shelter, clothing, etc.) and spiritual restoration through the preaching of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Invisible Children is a secular organization that not only misleads the public, but also promotes physical aid without eternal benefit.

Invisible Children (IC) was founded in 2004 and officially became a non-profit 501(c)(3) organization in 2006. IC is located in San Diego, California started by three young filmmakers who traveled to Africa in search of an interesting and compelling story to share. Why they chose Africa and not somewhere here in the United States is not clear, but nonetheless, they traveled, and to their joy, a story was found—the tyranny of Joseph Kony.

Joseph Kony is a self-proclaimed prophet and leader of a band of rebels known as the Lord’s Resistance Army (LRA) who kidnapped, molested, raped, disfigured and murdered in order to grow their army and retain power. The LRA was formed in 1987 supposedly to fight against the Ugandan government’s perceived injustices upon the Acholi people and to establish and maintain a theocratic society based on the Ten Commandments. Disturbingly, Kony’s tactics vehemently oppose the Ten Commandments rather than keep them.

In IC’s “Kony 2012”, they imply that no one was doing anything until their organization came along. This is simply not true. In 2005, the International Criminal Court issued a warrant of arrest for Joseph Kony, prior to IC’s first film and plea for his arrest. In 2008, President George W. Bush signed a directive providing the Ugandan government with finances and 17 military advisers and analysts in order to capture and disassemble the Lord’s Resistance Army. Unfortunately, this was not a successful mission. However, through this effort, the members of the LRA were dispersed, their terror decreased and Joseph Kony was forced into hiding.

Other questionable activities are Invisible Children’s finances and how they’re allocated. Most of the money is used for salaries, media marketing and travel expenses. Despite what’s portrayed in the video, IC has done very little to actually help the Ugandan people from the devastation that was left by the LRA’s reign of terror.

The Better Business Bureau reports that though they have repeatedly made Wise Giving Alliance requests, Invisible Children has failed to respond.

As many of you know, I've had some particularly difficult health challenges these past eight years and though it's finally been discovered what I have, there is no cure and some of the damages done (years prior to diagnosis) are irreversible. One of the things that suffered was my lower back where I had one disc that was herniated and bulging, another just bulging and one slipped. This caused me to have severe back and leg pain for many years. But through it all, God has taught me much about perseverance and what it really means to trust Him and to give thanks to Him, in and for all things (1 Thess 5:16-18).

After undergoing physical therapy and spinal decompression therapy for the past five years, I was told that I didn't have to have surgery yet, but one day I would. We thought this meant I'd need surgery in 10-15 years, not only a couple.

Clinging to God's word has sustained me through many challenges and trials my entire life, and I'm grateful for the power of Scripture and the Spirit of Christ that dwells within me, Who enables me to overcome the difficulties of my trials rather than be disabled and made ineffective by them (2 Cor 4:7-10, 16-18).

On Sunday, February 26, 2012 my back started hurting and I began to have a bit of sciatica...again. I didn't think much of it, as I've been suffering from severe, lower back problems for the past 5 years I took my Flexeril (muscle relaxer) and Meloxicam (anti-inflammatory) that were prescribed to me years ago to help when I have flare ups. Normally, after taking these medications for a one to three days, I'm fine. But not this time. Something was different. And I knew it.

I went to church that morning, but by the time I got home, I could hardly walk. I immediately took my medications, but this time, they didn't help...at all. By the third day, I was in so much pain, I asked Jim to take me to the ER. They took a CT Scan of my back and decided to consult with the on-call neurosurgeon, Dr. Salinas. After the physical exam and the results from the CT Scan, Dr. Salinas had me admitted to the hospital and ordered an MRI of my back.

They discovered that I now had two herniated discs that were completely dry and the fluids that were in them had leaked out onto the nerves and muscles that surrounded that area which caused them to become irritated and inflamed. They also discovered that one of my vertebrae had slipped a bit and recommended that I have a double discectomy (complete removal and replacement of discs) as well as a lumbar fusion. Because of the location of my herniated discs and slipped vertebrae, they had to go in through the front and the back. This surgery was about three and a half hours long.

2 titanium rods and 8 screws view from the back
I have an approximately 4" incision in the front, from my navel down where they removed the dried out, herniated discs and replaced them with new, hollow ones that were infused with bone material. Then they went in the back, with two, approximately 7" incisions (parallel to one another) to place two titanium rods and eight screws in my back to hold everything together while it heals (this will take nine months).

Dr. Salinas was kind enough to be honest with me and tell me that I would be in a lot of pain after the surgery. I was thankful for that because when I woke up in excruciating pain, requesting for pain medication (which, for anyone who knows me, means I'm really hurting) repeatedly. I'd rather have another baby. Seriously, I've had two babies, with nearly dying giving birth to my oldest son, and I'll be honest, the pain from the back surgery was the worst pain I've ever experienced.

I have to wear a back brace that weighs about 2 pounds anytime I'm not sleeping. And I have to wear it for at least three to four months, or the entire nine months; my neurosurgeon will let me know how I'm progressing at my three month, six month and nine month check-ups where they take x-rays to see if my bones are fusing well.

2 titanium rods and 8 screws, side view
I am also currently walking with the help of a walker as I can't stand well on my own for an extended period of time yet. I'm hoping to graduate to a cane soon. My darling husband also purchased me a nice transporter chair so he can take me to church, go for walks, eat out, shopping, etc.

I'm not sure if I'll being doing rehab yet, but if I do, Dr. Salinas said we wouldn't start that until after eight weeks post-op.

Throughout all of this, my darling husband has been simply amazing! Although I wanted him to, he refused to leave my side after I had the surgery and  he slept at the hospital for three (sleepless) nights, caring for me, turning me every 30-90 minutes, helping me to the bathroom and with great love and patience, took care of anything I needed.

He also spent the next couple of days calling, visiting places and researching online to purchase me the best of everything I needed during my recovering: walker, bath chair, transport chair, already made foods and drinks, a sock buddy, a grabber, etc.

As if this weren't enough, the Lord chose to kindly bless us with an amazingly loving Sunday School class who not only offered us faithful prayers, but also three weeks of dinners which someone brings us every other day! And as if that were't enough God continued to lavish us with other brothers and sisters in Christ who have brought me lunch and stayed to fellowship, and sweet friends who also brought us dinner on the nights that were open. We have so much food in the house, I'm sure we won't go hungry any time soon.

I've been so touched by all the loving and encouraging prayers, cards, e-cards, emails, text messages, Facebook and Google+ posts and comments as well as the "get well"flowers and gifts I've received. Truly, when the Body functions as it ought to, everyone is blessed and everyone is moved to give much thanks, praise and glory to our Father in Heaven.

And yes, I'm in a lot of pain and I know I have a long recovery ahead of me, but I know that God will continue to show me what He plans on doing in, to and through me during this time. I'm very excited about whatever He has in store for I know that since He is sovereign, He is good and He loves me, everything He chooses will be for my eternal benefit as He patiently and lovingly conforms me more and more into the image of Christ my Lord.

"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, in order that He might be the firstborn among many brothers."
~Romans 8:28-29



Once the wedding is over and the guests have gone, we’re left alone with our spouse to live out what we've just promised. This is when most of us realize how selfish and arrogant we are and how difficult it really is to love our spouses “for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, 'till death do us part”.

It takes more than a whimsical “forever after” idea for a marriage to do more than survive; but thrive. A marriage only flourishes if we obey God’s command to love one another with a holy and sacrificial love that puts Christ first and our spouses second.
“Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves...Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord...Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her, that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word...However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
~Philippians 2:3; Eph 5:22, 24-26, 33
Most of us know how to handle ourselves when our spouse gets sick with short-lived illness, but what do you do when your spouse is struck with health troubles that last for months, years or a lifetime?...[read full article]



Does it mean we slap a silly smile on our faces and shout "Praise the Lord!" when we receive news that would devastate any normal human being? Certainly not. That's not joy in the Lord, that's plain 'ol lunacy in the flesh; masquerading as a strong and faithful Christian.

A counterfeit joy infused by self-will never produces the good fruit of the Lord Jesus Christ.

"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."
~James 1:2-4

I'm writing this from my hospital bed. I've been here since Tuesday (February 28, 2012). I'm scheduled to have a double discectomy (complete removal and replacement of two discs) and spinal fusion tomorrow at noon. It's a four hour surgery and from what I've been told by my neurosurgeon, a painful and long recovery.

I'll remain in the hospital for three to four days post-op, then be released to go home with pain medications that they said I may need for a few months. I'm hoping to use them only for a couple of weeks...tops. But we shall see.

As I write this, I'm currently in pain, so much so, though my spirits are high and I'm rather cheerful, the blood pressure monitor tells the hospital staff another story—my body is weak and is under a lot stress due to immense pain...thus the pain pump they've given me to be administered every six minutes.

Since the hospital staff left "Today's Plan" blank, my
darling husband saw this as an opportunity to share
what our plans were going to be. ☺ 
I've been asked by staff why I seem so "cheery" when I'm obviously in pain. And here's where I get to boast in my weaknesses and the power of Christ they are witnessing in spite of it (2 Cor 12:9-10).

Do I hurt? Yes! Am I excited to be here. No! Did I jump for "joy" when I was told I needed surgery? No. Was I honest about it. Yes. So, then, why can I still find peace, comfort and joy in the midst of pain and not-so-good news? Because my strength, my joy is set on the Rock of my salvation, on the Lord Jesus Christ, therefore, it is not easily shaken (Psalm 62:2).

I had my moment of tears and fears, but there is truly a time and place for everything. There is a time to weep and there is certainly a time to laugh (Ecclesiastes 3:4).

Laughter doesn't always come because we find something amusing or entertaining; sometimes, like these times, they come because we find things incredible and impossible (like Sarah laughed when God told her she would be pregnant in her old age). The mighty works of our heavenly Father are so beyond our capacity to fully understand His glorious ways, sometimes, all we can do is laugh. We laugh not because we find God amusing, but because we're so amazed and so in awe of what He has done and continues to do in our lives.

I don't find joy in my pain. I find joy in my Savior and what He chooses to use my pain to produce—lasting fruit that will be used by God to exhort and encourage other saints and to proclaim the Gospel of Jesus Christ to those He came to save.

"So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal."
~2 Corinthians 4:16-18

Our joy comes from knowing that God uses even the painful, "bad" things in our lives to work for our eternal benefit; conforming us more and more into the image of Christ (Rom 8:29). This is why, when we consider our trials a joy, we will lack nothing. For what more could we gain, than to be like our Master?


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